I totally understand what you are saying Zew.
How did you sitch turn out. I didn't read the whole story.

I'm not gonna lie, I'm still attached. But the fog from the OM exposure is lifting.

My W told me sth after BD. There's truth in it although that's NOT how M works:
"If you really love someone, you have to let them go. If they don't come back they were never yours."

Last edited by Complex; 01/25/15 05:12 AM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15