Oh dear. This totally [censored] for you, Calibri, and I'm so sorry you are going through this. WTF are his parents thinking?
Ss's post was on the mark. Calibri (and Zelda) - I think you need to go NC and focus on you for a while. Embrace the opportunity to play by your rules and do things you love to do. The R will sort itself out in time. We'll all be ok.
Raliced - yeah, I've often wondered if people with kids think those of us without kids are a bit crazy for doing all this. I agree it will certainly be easier for us to run for the hills and not look back! But emotionally I think this experience is pretty similar for us. It's the investment in the R that is really what counts here. I've been with my H for 15 years. That's still hard to walk away from emotionally, even if it is easier from a practical standpoint.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
