Ganb8te, I will take some time to digest what you say. I know you've hit a nerve in pointing out the essence of what did make me and H work...I feel my guard dropping just in reading some of your words. You speak with so much peace, I admire it.

How is it, this low-desire/high-desire thing, these lost men...what is it in a woman that makes us choose this? I mean, what about Amal and George Clooney? That's looking pretty good.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.