DB continues but you might actually be able to breathe again and you can "watch" everything from above.
Yes, yes. Then you get to the point where you are truly detached, and start thinking about what YOU want to do with the rest of your life.
And you realize W will either join you or not, and that all shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
In many respects I feel my W has set me free to do a reset. I would never have left her (and I would have been happy), but if she forces the issue, I will choose as wisely I can from the options available.
