He knows I don't like his parents. To have them do the dirty work, is pouring the whole container of salt in the open wound.

I got a further text from his parents before I blocked them that said, "H does feel like he owes you the decency to talk to you, he's just so upset that he can't do it right now. But he knows he shouldn't lie, but he lied to keep the peace and to spare you pain."

Everything was seemingly fine until he got busted. And then it all fell apart.

It probably never was fine. He was probably people pleasing me up until the end.


But to hide behind your parents?

I seriously cannot believe my marriage is ending this way. I thought he had more common decency than that.

M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15