Mine was no OW in my house and I made it very abundantly clear to Ms. Wonka. I told Ms. Wonka in no uncertain terms that OW was not allowed in or near the house. I was very angry and firm when I communicated my boundary to Ms. Wonka. Guess what? No OW in the house as long as I lived in there.
Let me share a brief story about my late father. My parents went through a divorce when I was under 2 years old and my mother married the OM. Apparently, somehow, I took to calling OM "Daddy." When my father learned of this, he FLIPPED out and immediately went over to my mother's house to tell her in no undertain terms that he's the ONLY father I will ever know and that he's the only man I am to call "Daddy."
With that clear boundary in place, it put a stop to me calling the OM "Daddy" completely and incidently they divorced less than tow years. Goes to show you that As don't last long.
