It has come to my attention that, while (me) away on a recent business trip (last week) my W had the OM over to our house, for most of a day (not overnight) while our 2.5 D was home with W.
While I understand that my W is not the person I once knew, I must say I am truly disappointed in her. I feel zero jealousy to the situation with OM being at our house with my W, but I am really worried for my daughters sake. She is the most important thing in my life and I want to see what is best for her. I realize my W has already made a series of bad choices but this really makes me concerned for how poor her judgement has gotten.
I have done some research and (have read) that is suggested to not involve new relationship partners in children's lives for (one source) six months AFTER divorce and (another source) even suggests am much as two years.
LOOKING FOR INSIGHT AND ADVICE -- PLEASE GIVE FEEDBACK.
As always, appreciate the wisdom given on this resource and hope any others in similar situations are doing as best as possible.
Standing by,
M: 44 W: 35 D: 2.5 M +5 | T 10 OM + Affair admitted 11/11/14 Separated 11/27/14
