One of my h complaints was I wasn't a dependant woman. He also complained I was pathetic and expected him to take care of stuff.
On one hand he wanted to be needed and irreplaceable but really couldn't live up to the task and found it smothering. Just my take. He wanted the alpha role, but couldn't live with a strong woman. He didn't want to share the roles, he wanted to control both ships, so to speak.
I love to be taken care of, the whole nice chivours behaviours. I don't like not been given any voice. Often that was the case,
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
