Hi Sandi

As always your advice is honest and spot on. Tonight has been difficult. I'm Made tea for wife me and daughter who came home shortly after. Wife was really chatty and friendly. Talks by about the show they had just been to see. I was friendly and up beat back. Talked to my daughter about and when done put my daughter to bed. We then watched tv together and she continued chatting and being friendly even laughing together at one point. It's so hard to detach myself from that without being rude. I don't engage any more than I need to but she is having her cake and eat while I'm still here. As far as anything else I'm doing nothing. I haven't mentioned relationship since BD. No pursuing, not mentioned of OM, nothing at all.
I'm taking D ice skating tomorrow so that wil be fun. Wife can't skate and hates it

I'm looking at property a little further away. I think the only time it wil sink in for my wife is when I'm gone. Like you say she needs to sort out her mess and i need to move on with my own life


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on