Thanks heather!!
Oh and I got another email asking me to own up to all my faults

including the following gems

Quote:
until our sons have a less one-sided, more truthful view of past events, so they can let go of the narrative that makes me the villain.


Quote:
You have not yet mentioned any of yours.[faults]


I replied very sweetly. And briefly. I asked for a list of my faults, and a form of words that would cover what he calls 'the past events' And left it at that.

He is playing the victim big time!!