First off thank you so much Sandi and Rppfl. You two are amazing women. Sandi for sticking with this board for so long and helping so many people. Rppfl for being so strong with your sich. I follow yours and Hp's thread and have learnt so much from different view points.

Rppfl, we are in the process of selling our old house. She moved back into it after I moved out and stopped making payments. Because I was underwater on it and it was not cost affective for me to keep living there and supporting my kids. So she only pays for utilities. She makes half of what I do. And I pay child support on the suggestion of my lawyer. I asked for half of the lawyer fees because it was a joint house.

Thanks
3kids


M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced