Oh and my thoughts on MLC? I was interested in what Wonka had to say about his experinces. I do believe some people go through a " life crisis" I don't believe that gives them a get out of jail free card. I think we all have to be held accountable for our behaviour. I can empathize with someone in crisis. I would not be waiting for 7 yrs. If my H had come around I still would not have jumped right back in. I would have had boundaries. He would have to have gone for IC. Otherwise what is to stop the pattern from repeating itself. If getting stressed and depressed equals blaming my spouse and stepping outside of the marriage then what happens the next time life throws you a curve ball and you are stressed or depressed?

My H. Is not sorry or trying to change. He is acting like an irresponsible adolescent. I don't want that in my life.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.