My W's three best friends right now have 6 divorces among them. But it's natural isn't it. Who else is going to understand and commiserate better with a WAW than someone just through a D. There's a whole lot of sympathetic man hating going on there, I'm sure. And who else is more eager to go out with a WAW and flirt with guys in a bar than a couple of D'd moms. And all the happily M'd friends? They "don't get her", so they've fallen off the map.
It feeds on itself, and that may be a good thing.
But here's the thing. You already know the answer.
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I'll stick with my DB course of course. Just trying to dig a little deeper on that issue. I won't get distracted from my path through it tho, it's nothing I can change.