Your son seems to be very wise. He knows you are the stable factor in his life and it must concern him when he sees you take less than a healthy choice. He may even have thoughts if something happened to make you sick where you couldn't take care of him, then what?
Under other circumstances I might give a different POV, but since you wish you had S12 more, and since conditions at the aunt's are not the best, I would say to be flexible and let him stay with you. I think it would take a little stress from him. He may feel victimized when he's force to stay there. I doubt it is going to make her get her act together any faster by pressing it. In most cases I do not have this opinion regarding scheduling, etc. However, for S12's sake, I say to go with the flow and see how that works. You can always make adjustments later.
Absolutely HP, 100% agree with Sandi.
It's temporary and s12 is happier this way. What a wonderful s12 you have who loves, trusts and has such insight.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 01/24/1504:26 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
