I need some advice please. I am looking at moving out as soon as possible. renting somewhere and leave our tenants in our other house. I need to move on and cant whilst still here whilst my wife is still involved with OM. I have no idea what the situation is between them now. But she is still working with him so as far as im concerned she still chooses to be with him. I have seen on these boards though that I should not move out. The problem is I cant afford to live here on my own if my wife moved out. How will she see any consequences though if she gets to stay in her house without really losing anything? My daughter will be here half the week and our cat (silly I know but I love him to) Will the fact that im no longer around to fetch and carry be enough that she thinks about what she is doing?
Well you could move out and stop making your contribution...
Of course it would be better if she couldn't afford and had to move out.
unfortunately my wife earns a lot more than I do. I cant afford to be here on my own and she knows that. There is very little I can do other than moving out. Yes there will be no contribution to this house though. I will be looking after my daughter 50% of the time and already contribute to school fees, pay for her other hobbies so I think that's more than fair. When we've had some time apart we will then need to decide what we do financially. Im going to see a solicitor next week just to see where I stand
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
