Hi, OD.

Correct my impression... I seem to recall early in your sitch that you and daft lass had agreed to an in house separation, and that there was a big production about explaining it all to the boys? There was some conversation about selling the house and something about a rental? Am I remembering incorrectly?

Either way, the way your W is acting, she has already left the marriage. It isn't slipping away. It's gone. Just in an incredibly slow and hurtful way.

There's a story around here about the Stockdale paradox and learning to accept that you're already dead. You haven't adopted that thinking yet, but for your own well-being, it may be time to.

You seem like a good guy, Old Dog. I'm glad you roared, sometimes that really helps. Im sorry for the torturous way this is unfolding and I hope you find a way to move forward and find your happy groove.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.