Thanks Karma. I just cant imagine dating EVER though i know thats ridiculous. Id never bring anyone to my girls unless it was very very setious and stable, like you said.
He missed her first encounter with snow and her first snowman today because he insisted on showering and after that didnt join us outside but was on the playstation. It just breaks my heart for my D. He was 10secs away. And stayed there.
He still kisses me when i come in from work and before bed.
When I asked if i could put some of his old water glasses on my list to take away he said ye. But he said he was weirded out talking about ot and felt like he didnt want it to happen. I smiled and shrugged and changed subject. I am moving out. Actions not words is what i need.


Me: 36
Him: 36
DD: 3y
DD2: 1.5mo
Together: 5y
Married: > 3y
D: April 1st '15 after 1y of affairs