I think thats a very good perspective: YOU ARE THE ONLY ROLEMODEL for your SD. Show her what you'd want HER to do if she was treated this way. This is why I am leaving. My daughter will NOT learn that this is acceptable behaviour.

25mlc has some good points. Go out! LOOK for a guy. I seriously have no idea where I d meet any men. But maybe some of your friends do?

There is no chance for reconcilliation right now. Maybe there will Mevrr be, but the only thing you can still control now is him losing you. Become happy with a man that deserved you. You might not even want him back then. :-)

Me: 36
Him: 36
DD: 3y
DD2: 1.5mo
Together: 5y
Married: > 3y
D: April 1st '15 after 1y of affairs