Start making calls now, don't wait. Don't rely on what your wife's attorney has supposedly said.
I thought about it but in the grand scheme of things it won't matter. Like i said i'd never take the house her mom gave her or force it to be split up. She offered to give me half of what we put into it since moving, i think that's fair. The last thing i want right now is for anything to turn ugly. I'd be moving out regardless anyway, i couldn't stay here and be treated like an invisible man just to prove a point.
And i forgot to mention that last night she was originally very cold to me. But she said she had to do that because nothing else ever worked. After i vented and cried a lot she seemed to open up and feel genuinely bad and even hugged me and offered to make me dinner. I realize it means nothing but to me it was something i needed....just seeing that she still had a heart.
Frank, I think the point is still a good one, if she's spoken to a lawyer then it's probably time for you to speak to one as well, just so you know where you stand.
It sounds like a hard situation with the house, you don't know that you'd be treated like an invisible man though, everyone's situation is different. Ultimately you need to decide what's best for you, but maybe you should take some more time to think about it - it sounds like you agreed straightaway to move out, but sleep on it a few days.
I'll just echo what everyone else said that happiness is not over, and it's not the end. Do read the book when you get it, hope it gives you some more hope about your happiness and future.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
