Hi. Old dog. I don't post on yours much but I really feel for you right now. I know you are up to date on my ditch and I am where you seem to be going. My W spends her time with OM It's really hard to take after years together and there is nothing I can say to make you feel better. Your W is on a journey and you need to let go You have no control and she will do what she wants. In their heads the am is over and you can change that. Hopefully with time your W will realise what she is losing but only time will tell. Please believe that you will be happy again. No one knows what that happiness will look like but it will be there. I can't give wise advice but from my experience try to keep busy , try to not brood about it ( easier said than done) and know that things happen for a reason. I have read on here about setting boundaries and would encourage you to look at these If your living together and she is going on dates then that seems like a deal breaker for me Anyway please know that posting often will help the wiser ones amongst us to post words that might help. Take care. RD
