Surving the rollercoster

[25yearsmlc]

PS

I hope you'll really do that 5-10 minute exercise and drop the rope for real.

Move on. Go forward. Act as if reality has sunk in, which is that he's NOT husband material. Be brave.

Be a GREAT LOVING step mother, and expect No lasting improvement from your ex h.

If he makes an adult choice about you, you'll know it. He knows what to do; he's 44 y/o! There won't be mystery or foggy stuff; it'll be clear & overt.

(If not, it's simply not worth turning around for.)

You've gained a wonderful SD for whom you are grateful. She's always going to be in your life.

Stay the course. I truly believe if there is a chance of him growing up for you, it'll be b/c he honestly think he's lost you.

And if he never wakes up or never does the work needed to win you back,

then Imagine her seeing you alone, but happy.

AND OR -- imagine her seeing you in a healthy loving M w/OM. Now that's a life lesson!


My .02