Toots. Old dog. Jim rppl. Thank you all. I do practice mindfulness and it works well for me however when you are faced with certain facts and assumptions based on what you see it's hard not to let your mind fill in the blanks.
W is very unhappy and would normally breakdown once or twice a week with me about her sitch re money ,kids and life is general I also know my W is a strong person who will live with her choices.
Her OM is someone who she would normally avoid. W has told me she enjoys his company and he is a great friend. I don't thi my W would end this friendships as she is from the uk and her only family in Ireland are us. Without us OM is all she has. Even if she wanted to get away from him she would be on her own as all her new friends work with her and him. No one of our friends from our life know she is gone as she won't tell them because she believes they would not understand why she left her kids or me
Vanilla. W appears to be living on her own with OM staying there ( I don't know how much) He has a council flat which I don't think he would give up
W seems to be running around after him alot and that's also not her normally as I said she is a strong person but seems to have fallen under his spell. I confide I a few close friends and family who all think its not physical , as does LC but I don't agree. Kids will never accept this OM m maybe a different one down the road
As regards amount of time W spends here , I agree , it's a bit unusual and I could give a lot of examples where W looks for advice or moral support from me , which would not support OM as a deep R.
Thank you all for your support. I think I have been bottling up a lot of thoughts and I need to post them on here for you guys to advise and or support. Thank you take care RD
