Thanks for posting the article unbidden. This helped me a lot. I'm struggling with forgiving, especially myself. And we have to forgive ourselves FIRST before we can truly forgive others.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15