You are absolutely right M! It's time to reread DR again at least the parts I need like the goal-setting.
I read so many posts on here especially the responses from vets like 25 and Sandi. 25 posts over and over about GAL and overcoming inertia as the key to detachment. I really, really am having a hard time with detachment because he is living at home and we do spend so much time together...of course that is a positive.
H and I watched a movie again tonight, he asked.
D13 has a tournament this weekend so we will spend lots of time together. He used to hate going to sporting events, partly because he didn't like how involved I got and some of the complaining I did about coaches choices and what not. I don't think I'm quite as 'bad' as I used to be (different circumstances with my S) but I will def be aware of my actions and 180 the heck out them.
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
