I feel that she is slipping away - Please help

[bravo61]

aml,
you are not "letting her slip away". she's gone. the marriage you knew was over the second that she decided it was. it stinks but it is a fact. when i read your post, it took me back to my first post so much! she needs to see that you are moving on. you need to accept that you have to mentally move on too. don't think about what she does, it'll just keep you in the dark place. work on YOU! that is all you can do. you can always keep hope alive but don't wallow in it. praying for you!

also keep in mind that you are the villian when she tells people the story of your lives together. how you respond to this adversity will say more about the person you are than a novel of words.