Well interesting- H came by to get kids tonight and said that he has set aside most of the money he will need to pay taxes on for the distribution he took out. The small amount he will still need to pay he is saving from his current job to put in before April when it will have to be paid. I asked him if I should be preoared for there to be a big tax bill- he was very adamant that he wants me to contribute nothing towards any of his portion. ( which of course he should be, but we will see once I have the data....)
He also put together a spreadsheet of all the kids expenses each month and how much he needs to contribute and says he's going to share it with me so I can review and correct anything on it.
Who knows if it's truth but as for today he sounds like he's trying to be a responsible adult. Hope the follow through is there.


Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
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