train, 25yrs, others who kept up on my sitch

[Ggrass]

I think some of us and our partners get caught up in thinking forgiveness is saying

Your forgiven, and it's forgotten. My h did, he thought you say done and it was not that it is a process. That can take time, more time with repeated large indiscretions on their part.

So repeated cheating is huge. They say it can take 6 months, to forgive. Let alone if the person who wronged you has no desire to change. I get the picking at a scab thing you do your self, but in my h case he kept picking that wound open on my. Behalf.

He made mistakes forgiveness was maditory
Gg made deal breakers and no forgiveness reall came forth.