I'm not catching your drift with what you say. Press charges? I don't want a war. I don't have the money or the appetite for that. That would definitely make things a whole lot worse with my wife. I have to be the bigger person and be civil and friendly for the sake of our daughter. I don't ever want her turning on me because I've been malicious as much as the OM deserves it. Right now my wife would fight his and their business's corner. That's alll she seems to care about and has for a long time.
Prang of car? Not my problem not my car. If it is damaged she needs to stand on her own to sort it. I listened commented as our daughter was there but left it at that. I certainly wasn't showing any concern.
I said you don't have to start a fight with the other guy, but you can "let" him start one with you. You can be prepared and devastate him and press charges. And remember in a street fight anything is legal, you don't only have to use your hands.
You can also destroy or cause him harm through relationships and inappropriate transgressions in the workplace.
