Started a new thread with a quick run down of where I am now.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2530219#Post2530219

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15