Just got an email from WAH: (Note, the behavior he is referencing is my anger. I have said I will not discuss anything with him—divorce or reconciliation unless we're in the presence of a counselor. I broke a glass last week when the kids were at his mom's and we were talking about the R. I made the mistake of saying, "So what's your plan? Divorce me and get married a THIRD time (H was married before me, but there were no children and she was the WAS...allegedly...) and start a new family." H said "Sure! Why not?" He also told me if his coworker I'm jealous of wasn't married he would want to go out with her because she's so nice and I'm not. Commence me breaking a glass. Yes, I know it was wrong. I am so angry right now I can't even thing straight some days. Anyway, can everyone please hold back the 2x4s, I realize how much I deserve them, and let me know how to respond to this email? Thank you to anyone who reads this!

Lorelai,

I looked around for some apartments that might work and I thought I'd share the links with you. I'm happy to help out however I can. If you see anything you like and want to go look at something this weekend, just let me know and I can watch the kids.

He then listed a bunch of links to apartments.


I think given what's happened with you getting so upset and breaking glasses and yelling at people this is something we should try.I know this is behavior you regret and I know that this is a difficult time for you, but it is not acceptable under any circumstances.

Let me know what you think.


Me: 38
H: 43
Kids: 2,4
T10 M6
BD: 1/14
11/14: H moves out