"It is what it is" was her exact quote. Not that I believe much of what she says, but it was awfully level-headed, especially for her. She's not exactly exuberant but she's not curled up on the bed crying either.
Well, my first thought is that OM may have been the one to by-pass that little meeting where she wanted clarity. But I hope you are correct in what you see. Maybe both of you passed your tests. She tested you, and I know she was tested.
It will be good if OM will stay gone for at least 12 weeks. It took like 4 months of hard withdrawals for me. And that was with absolutely NC with OM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
