Hi RD,

I have to say i think i agree with a lot vanilla's analysis. particularly about the relaxation class. Not sure quite what happened but if your worried about the being in public then there is relaxation/meditation stuff around that you can do at home. surpressing stuff generally isnt good.

you are also making an assumption that OM is making her happy, and even if he is, if everything else isnt then that will raise questions for her.

I hope you've got some good plans for the weekend


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress