I have some of his books.

Sounds like a couple of good developments for you there. that support group could be an interesting development (limit your expectations though)

If you get a chance i'd be interested if you could elaborate how it worked a bit more, the sort of questions you asked/were asked etc.

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress