Hi vanilla. My Ds are ok. D10 is a bit down this week and D13 seems ok but I try not to ask them too much about sitch because it only upsets her. We are ok as our new family unit but it's hard for me a W is around a lot but I suppose if it keeps kids happy that's what I have to accept for now.
W is a very sad lady at the moment but she is the type of person to accept her fate. There has been a lot of contact this week
She called after work last nite and as she was leaving I gave her a hug. It's the first hug since Xmas and I gave it on the advice of l,/c who thinks she is very lost and that the door is closed for ,W to come home. As she left I told her to take care and about an hour later she text me to say she was home safe. We had a bit of texting back and forth over a joke
Standing back and looking at my stich it seems to me that Ws only happiness is OM. The rest of her life is not great. I am detaching slowly but time is a great healer and it passes relentlessly
Thanks vanilla. You are a class act. Take care. Rd
