Really tough situation but sounds like she is having her cake and eating it. From what I've read about affairs and ive read bloody loads this last week her actions are very common. Spouse wants the excitement of the affair and the uphoric feeling they get from it but also want to know that at home they have the plan b. I'm in a similar situation. Wife owns a business with OM so no way will it stop but she also seems happy that I'm sat around here at home. I'm finding it really hard to detach as we're both at home with our daughter and trying not to let her know or upset her so I can't be too aloof. Really I just want out. Then she can do whatever she wants but I won't be here for her to come and have a chat with later
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
