My W first told me the same thing. She said that she was unhappy so she told me to move out. I remember laughing at her and said if she was the one who was unhappy, she can leave. Which she did.
Don't leave your home. Once you're out, you'll have no guarantee that he'll keep his promise of paying for where you'll be living. You may think that your H would "never" do that, but you will be VERY surprised as to what a WAS is capable of doing.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.