Heather, You need to set a boundary w/him. Advise him of your work hours and that you will not be available during those hours for texts, emails or phone calls unless it is an absolute emergency. You've laid everything out and he needs to realize and accept that you are still on probation and need to keep your focus on your job during those hours.
I don't trust him one iota. The man has proven time and again that he can't be trusted. Keep your emails short, to the point and sweet. They can't focus on lengthy correspondence. I know, you tried to stay on point and then he sucked you back in. As for his selfie, put it on a voodoo doll and poke pins in the doll. That was such a childish move on his part. Yeah, he misses you alright. He sure was baiting the fishing line.
BTW, I'm glad you and D12 did something fun. You have to let your hair down once in a while and it appears that both of you enjoyed yourselves.
As for your D12's twitter account, discuss it w/her and if she doesn't want him to have access, so be it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
