Originally Posted By: u-turn
W is still hiding her A and still pretending to be my wife

Originally Posted By: u-turn
She is just being nice and keeping me happy and at arm's length so she can continue her double life.


Hi U-turn, first up no need to be embarrased. I think most of us have a bunch of stuff on our threads that we would rather not read back but by posting maybe someone can help with the confusion.

Speaking of which, and i've got myself a bit confused, but how do you know this ^^^^^? Do you definitely KNOW the affair is still going on?

I ask because from my perspective i think there are a couple of substantially different ways to view your situation


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress