***Why would she feel the need to ask me why I wasn't at home and then not believe my response. I didn't ask her where she was on Monday (she was off the whole day), I didn't ask her about her plans last night. Is it a control thing? Is there a sense of jealousy?
***I know this sounds petty and I guess I'm trying to play amateur psychologist,( think there is much going on than WAW with her) but what is her motivation to comment on some of my friends and family's posts? If you want to check out , check out then.
Who knows? Some want their independence from the M, but they want to keep tabs on what the LBH is doing. Some want to catch him in doing something wrong so she will feel more justified in her wanting to end the M. And yes, strange as it sounds, some are jealous.
It is not that uncommon for some WAW's to keep in touch with family and friends of the LBH. Maybe she doesn't want them to think badly of her.... .....or question what she imagines you may have told them. The reasons could vary with the woman.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
.....or question what she imagines you may have told them. The reasons could vary with the woman.