Good IC session this morning. I'm thinking that my WAW really thinks I was in the wrong and she was/is 100% in the right and just can't come off that POV. My IC thinks that her not filing is a way for my W to feel some control b/c she feels she hasn't had any. Ironically, I feel like my W always cut me out of the loop on critical family decisions. But I digress...

It also seems like she's stressing how bad off she is financially. And blaming me for that, perhaps?


My hopes for this recent bout of contact to be a sign of this D being busted are vanishing. I think a D is inevitable.

I've decided to go NC until she reaches out first again. I'm very low on money, but decided to cash out the 529 plans I established for her kids and use a bit of that money to get a lawyer.

Me: 39 W: 46
D: 7.5 S: 5
SD: 16 SS: 12
T: 2 (06/2012)
M: 2 (12/2012)
Separation 09/2014. No talks of D yet. No communication since 10/3/2014