Thank you Georgia.
That's exactly my fear, and her friend will support those actions, I read suggestions similar when I found out. But it still is an assumption, let's not forget that.
But I want to get prepared for the scenario. There will be talk, the family is just too supportive to not want to dig a little deeper before a D is finalized. She might even threaten me to not talk about OM with her F. But that's another assumption...the truth always lies somewhere in between.

I'll br treating any situation with the UTMOST OF RESPECT and love to everyone either way. That's the most important thing I think. But I don't wanna get caught off guard and be prepared and ahead of the game.


Last edited by Complex; 01/23/15 06:37 PM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15