I get what you are saying wanting your H to be free to be at peace.
It will allow your growth to continue and you to be at peace.
My H is still here in our home, but I know if he leaves I will be OK, I want him to be happy to smile. I love my H in that way, wanting his happiness with or without me.
I hope your H can "love" you in the same way.
It will be times of sadness for what is gone or lost, but I try to think about what I have learned and how I have grown in this process.
Shining hold on to the fact that you have grown!
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
