He is actually a very intelligent man. Unfortunately he's not using his head. I think he intended to come home and probably fell asleep. He then thought he'd be able to sneak back in without SD realizing he'd been out all night. Her room is over the garage so when he opened the garage door she heard it. Still he shouldn't be going out late on school nights period. Now that her Grandma and I are aware we will be keeping closer tabs on what's going on.
I know he does love her and sadly I think it is going to take something happening to wake him up. She's 13 and in high school. This is the age she needs to be supervised the most.
He obviously knew he did wrong and was feeling guilty. He normally would not have agreed to her coming to me like she did the other night.
This MLC thing creates a monster. It's like all people have their good side and bad side but are usually able to balance between the two. With MLC the good disappears and they are their worst selves all the time.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.