Has anyones marriage survived this kind of Trauma ?? Anyone on here that can tell me they did it . Afterall I actually caught her and him naked in bed having sex.
If you're asking if anyone on here has survived their spouse having an A, you haven't been reading any other threads. Whether you caught them in bed or not, you know there was a PA and what that involves. Not to make light of what you walked in to- it makes me sick to envision my W and OM, so I can only imagine your feeling having actually walked in on it.
Dawgy, what is your hope in all of this? To save your M? To make yourself a better person? To D your W and always hold onto that anger? All of your posts are just about how angry you are, how much you despise W, how bitter you've become. At some point, you have to accept what happened and come to peace with it, whether you save your M or not. Why not start today?
