T-I don't know if I can be with him after finding out what I did. Had he not lied about it? Maybe. But he lied. He covered his tracks, and not very well. And now with his latest revelation that his behaviors may or may not have been people pleasing? No.
We agreed when he left that we wouldn't talk to other people, we wouldn't date others. He was adamant about that. To find out that he met another woman, had conversations with her, flirted with her. While telling me he was lost, and didn't know what he wanted. To be on a dating website. That's not the character of someone I want to be with. Do I think what he did was an EA? No. I think it was stupid behavior. But I also think it's behavior that leads down a path that I cannot come back from.
Ganb8te - I am thinking about things. But with this mornings latest omission - the whole, people pleasing thing -- enough it enough. I need to get my ducks in a row, because he may never come back from this -- and I can't be caught flat footed waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Toots - I think you hit the nail on the head with your post. He's got a lot of [censored] to work on. And I respect that. But I also respect myself alot more, knowing that I need to completely remove myself from a situation that's not healthy for me.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
