Sometimes I think this is all BS and it is really as simple as this . She was weak and slept with another man thinking she could get away with it . The sex was great , like a drug she didnt want to stop, . Then she got caught !!! Oh shait ! now what to do ??She knows we will never be the same again , so she goes into survival mode and decides that she must stay with OM to make it right .lololol But as we all know an affair relationship has about as much of a chance of survival as hell freezing over . And yes it lasted about a year and now its over . Hmmm she thinks, Now what am i gonna do ? Hence she still under our roof , cooking meals , doing my laundry and acting like a mother and somewhat of a wife again . BUT..... I dont think I want her anymore . She has done tooooo much damamge to ever come back from . But maybe not . Has anyones marriage survived this kind of Trauma ?? Anyone on here that can tell me they did it . Afterall I actually caught her and him naked in bed having sex . Dawgy
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
