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[Panthr]

Just an update and some thoughts.....

This week was somewhat normalized. She told me on Monday that she was staying over her mother's house that night because she had an early dentist appointment the next morning and it was close. I made sure I didn't stress over it and whether she stayed there or not. That Tuesday she more helpful with kids and more engaging, which I was happy to see --this has not been the norm since September. The next few days were pretty much the same. We got along --not much interaction though. A few comments here and there . Things got a little weird on Thursday.

This was the days that she was going out with her girlfriends to dinner. So, I got the boys ready for daycare and dropped them off. My car's inspection was up and decided at that moment to call off work and take my car into the garage. As I was in the waiting room, killing time, I noticed it was my godfather's anniversary's and an uncle's birthday, so I acknowledged both that morning. Well, soon there after I get a text from W asking "Why are you at home?" I figured that she knows because FB includes where you commented from. I texted back I was at garage getting car inspected. She texts back "really?, I thought your friends were going to take you while at work". My first instinct was to text back "Really", but I didn't I just said "Yes, couldn't coordinate with friends" I wasn't going to be sucked into her dysfunctional. Anyways, I didn't hear from her after that --I spent the whole morning at the bookstore reading DR while waiting for car to be done. The boys and I had a great time going out to eat and then at the library, bath, snacks, and bed. She didn't come back until after 10pm, (She posted on fb thanking her friends for evening, so she spent at least part of the day with them) noticeably drunk and went to bed in spare bedroom after she came in master BR where kids crashed with me. She didn't say anything to me this morning.

Here are my questions.....

***Why would she feel the need to ask me why I wasn't at home and then not believe my response. I didn't ask her where she was on Monday (she was off the whole day), I didn't ask her about her plans last night. Is it a control thing? Is there a sense of jealousy?

***I know this sounds petty and I guess I'm trying to play amateur psychologist,( think there is much going on than WAW with her) but what is her motivation to comment on some of my friends and family's posts? If you want to check out , check out then.

As for more GAL ......I 'll text her later on that I will be going to happy hour after work and that I have plans tomorrow evening (Sat). More than likely, I won't be going out to a bar but I will make arrangements to check out a movie or visit my friends. I also am taking S5 to a birthday party --yes because I love spending time with him, but also because it keeps the W away from the gaggle of divorcee and separated women that are so rampant in the suburbs here. :-)