It was written a while back so things have changed by biologically we don't change that fast and we learn from role models, who were as it was. I like the alternate perspective on it though - to be honest I focused on the what I could learn not what women could do differently. For example Whilst I identify with the cave and the dragon I don't think that it's right, my bad mood shouldn't mean its OK to lash out at people who just want check I'm alright (unfortunately what I did). If I need space I can say exactly that and be grown up about it.
Its about 4 1/2 months now so I guess I can get a vest?
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
