sounds like a good start, be careful to remember that advice even in book advice has to be adapted to the person in question, also you cannot change anything earlier than today - I say this as, like me, you're want to dwell on couldhavewouldhavemighthaves and, mate, its the ultimate cheeseless tunnel
As to it being the house w left from, change it, paint it redecorate, turn it into what you want it to be when you open the door. This could be the place I fled to but its not I have some pics of w (theres a small one here on my desk but its was a magnificent day in italy on a boat and that memory makes me smile) as many as I have of s and canvases of pics I took of places we lived or went - those were bought for me by w as presents but I kept them and they are up.
Over time - when money is not so much non existant - there will be more canvases of s and other things that are happening now. You will be the same, go on, get going with the decoration and furnishing Jims place.
Ultimately we can be as happy as we let ourselves be, easy to say, hard to do but true
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M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015