Hi Calibri, I've been wondering how things were with you. Sorry to read this update. I suspect Maybell will be along soon to commiserate (her H was also on Tinder).
I agree with TLEE. I think it is important that you give this some time to process. You don't need to make a decision right now. Sit with it and see how you feel in a few days or couple of weeks even.
I used to think these things would be a deal breaker but now I'm not so sure, particulalry having read stories here.
(((Calibri)))
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014